As much as the truth is concerned, we can’t avoid making choices in our lives. I don’t believe there is anything that can happen accidentally. In most cases whatever happens in our lives is directly attached to some of the choices we made before. Sometimes things do happen and they’re seemingly accidental but in real sense the choices we made are the main cause. Obviously under human parameters we can always defend ourselves and at least convince ourselves and others that indeed it was an accident.
Good choices – Making choices is one of the most difficult thing to human beings. Again it’s each and everyone’s responsibility. Obviously good choices are made by those who are focused, intelligent, future oriented, sober minded and full of humility etc. Everyone on earth is intelligent and can focus. Though some people are afraid of making choices and they don’t make any. The act of not making a choice already is a choice of not making a choice. Good choices always leads us to our greatness. Again making a good choices isn’t a real problem, the real problem is how strong we are in achieving whatever we are working for.
It’s clear that something worthy and extremely precious can never be easily achieved. Those who made good choices are always insulted, mocked, given a limit by those who of course made wrong choice or decided not to make any. Remaining focused is very hard under the distructions of such toxic individuals. Overcoming them requires a high level of knowledge and wisdom. Some will always try giving you thousands of reasons as to why you won’t succeed. An intelligent person will always disregard all those thousands of reasons with just a single reason which is obviously a self confidence.
Things obviously gets complicated along the way. Sometimes one can even tend to confirm if indeed he/she made a good choice. Only focused individuals will always have the ability of moving forward even when success is seemingly impossible. Bearing in mind that nothing is impossible, an intelligent and focused individual will never give up because of hardship or other people’s negative thoughts.
Poor choices – Obviously those who make poor choices normally have their own reasons. Though I think majority of people in one way or the other make poor choices, only very few are bold enough to face the consequences of good choices.
Impatience is one of the major factor which contributes to poor choice making. Everyone on earth desires great fortunes but most people don’t feel like doing what it takes to have them. People’s impatience actually gives other irresponsible individuals an opportunity of misdirecting them. That’s how most individuals ends up on wrong paths. Someone who is impatient and greedy, given an information concerning how he/she can make great fortunes without even a single drop of sweats will always fall into the trap.
Most people always give themselves in just easily, they convince themselves that they must try and see if it truly works and in the process of ‘trying’ they eventually realizes that they truly need to work for everything they desire. Obviously poor choices will always waste one’s time, energy and materials before eventually letting them realize that they were truly moving but their destinations were suppose to be the exact points where they made their first steps. Not only finding themselves where they were initially, they’ll as well experience some losses. The time and materials they spent obviously can’t be recovered.